Homosexuality
Questions
& Answers
The Rev'd. Fr., Dr. Theodore Stylianopoulos
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Gays
and the Orthodox Church:
"Can I still join the Church if I'm a homosexual?"
Q:
I am powerfully drawn to the Orthodox Church, but I'm gay. Can
I be chrismated anyway? How will the other members of the church
treat me?
A:
The
church as a loving community, following the example of Christ,
welcomes to its life of faith all sincere seekers with their
gifts, their individual personalities, their peculiarities,
and even sins. Just as Christ embraced humanity to heal and
liberate people according to his image and likeness, so also
the church opens its arms to all in order to share the fullness
of grace and truth, evangelizing, baptizing, and teaching all
that Christ has commanded (Matthew 28:19-20).
As
you consider the welcome prospect of membership in the Orthodox
Church, the critical question is whether you are willing to
take the church on its own terms, in light of its own mission,
or only on your own terms. Think about why you are "powerfully
drawn" to the Orthodox Church. Is it perhaps its antiquity,
colorful worship, or historical character? Are you, as well,
willing to be challenged by its witness in its entirety, including
its doctrine, ethical teaching, and spirituality? You mention
that you are gay, suggesting that you wonder if being gay may
bar you from membership. Perhaps you know that, according to
traditional Orthodox teaching, homosexual activity is a sin
like adultery, fornication, and other acts of sexual impurity.
While we can't choose our temptations, we can choose our response
to temptation. Confession and forgiveness is available to those
who struggle to resist sin, but the intention to continue the
practice of homosexuality would indeed impede membership in
the Orthodox Church. Furthermore, advocacy of it as an acceptable
lifestyle within the church would be damaging to the community,
which values the historic moral practice we have inherited.
A
repentant, struggling homosexual who refrains from homosexual
acts can be received into the church after the usual course
of instruction, but he or she would do best to keep this matter
in the confessional, just as is common with every other sin.
Since
you have singled out this issue, let me add a few explanatory
remarks. It's not just homosexuality; the Orthodox Church opposes
today's cultural permissiveness in the area of sexuality generally,
especially with regard to cohabitation, promiscuity, and various
forms of eroticism. It has always maintained a strong position
on the holiness of the body as the temple of the Holy Spirit
and on the sanctity of marriage, where the gift of sexuality
finds genuine fulfillment. Homosexuality is regarded as contrary
to God's revealed purpose in his creation of gender and marriage
(Genesis 1-2), a position clearly affirmed by Christ (Mark 10:6-9).
Nevertheless, homosexuality is not to be isolated as the only
sin. It should be seen in the larger context of human sinfulness,
which includes sins like fornication, idolatry, adultery, thievery,
greed, and drunkenness, all of which according to St. Paul are
obstacles to entering God's kingdom (1 Corinthians 6:9-10).
To
be sure, the church itself is a historical community of saints
and sinners. Its members experience various evil inclinations,
temptations, and falls. The church must be full of compassion
and forgiveness toward all kinds of sinners within and without
its communion. Yet its public witness and word, to be authentic,
must be consistent with the church's God-given nature and mission,
even at the risk of appearing harsh and cruel to a permissive
culture. To be itself and serve effectively, the church must
seek to incarnate the very vision to which it invites the whole
world to share -- to be "a royal priesthood, a holy nation,
God's own people, that you may declare the wonderful deeds of
him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light"
(1 Peter 2:9).
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